Aargh!
I'm breaking my usual rule here and posting something that doesn't involve physical pain or dental evilness - except, I guess if I grind my teeth much longer over this, I'll be spitting bloodied gravel mixed with chalk-dust.

Anyway, I've just had an email from someone rebuking me for talking about them behind their back (which I hadn't been -- but will happily do now, as I've already had the telling-off) over asking them to remove a community they'd set up to discuss an event/organisation many of whose members don't even use email, never mind the particular online service the community was set up on.

I guess it hadn't occurred to the person that these people may not like being discussed behind their backs....